A Political Dinner Table

By Ruben Alarcon

In recent years, the dinner table—once a universal symbol of togetherness—has taken on a more complex and divisive role. Technology, which once promised connection, has instead often deepened divides. Political tension, generational shifts, escalating conflicts, and the echo chambers of social media have made conversations across differing views feel almost impossible. 

As the holiday season approaches, many are grappling with the challenge of engaging in meaningful dialogue with loved ones whose beliefs diverge from their own. For some, the thought of sitting down with family members who hold starkly opposing political or ideological opinions feels overwhelming. But what if this season could be an opportunity to refocus on what truly matters—our relationships? 

In the United States, recent elections have further fractured families, with polarised camps encouraging the ‘cancelling’ of relatives who disagree or even removing them from wills. In the United Kingdom, debates over issues like Israel and Palestine, as well as the lingering fallout of Brexit, continue to divide opinion, leaving many unable to see eye to eye. This is why a change in mindset is so vital—one that prioritises relationships over differences of opinion. The story of Jesus walking with the disciples on the road to Emmaus offers a timeless example: 

Two disciples were travelling to Emmaus, reflecting on the devastating events surrounding Jesus’ death. Jesus joined them, though they did not recognise Him, and asked what they were discussing. They shared their sadness, their dashed hopes, and the puzzling news of an empty tomb. 

Patiently, Jesus walked with them. He didn’t lecture or condemn; He listened, asked questions, and explained the Scriptures. Later, as they shared a meal, He broke bread, and in that simple act, their eyes were opened—they recognised Him. 

(Summary of Luke 24:13-32) 

This story serves as a powerful reminder. Jesus didn’t demand agreement or conformity but built understanding through shared experiences. Similarly, we can choose to listen openly, ask questions, and share perspectives. In Proverbs 18:17, we are taught that one person’s case may seem right until another examines it. In our noisy, polarised world, this approach feels more necessary than ever. We need each other. 

Our relationships are surely more valuable than our political allegiances. This doesn’t mean ignoring injustice or tolerating harmful rhetoric. It means choosing empathy and connection as the first steps towards meaningful change. As Christians, we are called to humility, seeing others as higher than ourselves (Philippians 2:3). 

Let the dinner table be a place for connection, not division. Agreement isn’t required—only a willingness to listen, to share, and to recognise the image of God in each person. So, as you take your seat at the table, remember: the most important contribution isn’t about taking a side—it’s about taking the time to connect. 

The views and opinions expressed above are those of the author alone and do not necessarily reflect those of the Jubilee Centre or its trustees.